Posts Tagged ‘self-improvement’

The Meaning Of Life

Saturday, August 23rd, 2008

Obviously I’m “limited” by the same human perspective as anyone else when I start talking about the meaning of life and the nature of the cosmos. But accepting this reality and moving forward, it appears to me in the most profound way that self discovery is the true meaning of life.

Learning about, knowing, and transforming the self is the ultimate quest. And a lack of self examination is at the heart of every problem people in this society spend their time wailing and whining about.

It may even be true that not knowing the self is at the heart of the world’s political “problems” and staged controversies. But that’s a story for another article.

I can say with confidence that to the extent an individual chooses to ignore self discovery and taking an honest look within, he or she must be suffering. It’s both sad and pathetic really.

I know so many people who are miserable in this life. They are unhappy about a lack of money, a lack of fulfillment, and so forth.

But they are absolutely unwilling to look within for a solution. In fact they will let nothing bring them to the point where they submit to a journey of self discovery.

Anything going deeper than the evening news or the plot of the Sex And The City movie is taboo for the majority of our civilization. Staying as shallow and clueless as possible about all matters of the self and spirit is imperative it seems.

And thus, the suffering on a mass scale will continue. I’ve resolved not to let it bother me as much as it once did.

My task is my own self. And if it’s true the world I observe is really within me I should set to work on creating the vision I want, knowing the people in my world will benefit from this work.

In my mind there is no higher calling than an inward journey. The Tao Te Ching, Proverbs, and many other ancient texts compare the outward strength required to conquer armies with the inner power needed to master the self and say pointedly the latter power is the greatest.

By knowing the self we can know the ways of the Universe. For thousands of years humanity has known the meaning of life, and still it remains hidden in plain sight.

By making self discovery the most important part of your life journey you will leave the petty problems of modern society behind and become one with a higher purpose. It won’t matter what appears to happen on the face of the outer illusion, and in time the outer will conform to your inner vision.

Imagine a world where everyone took full responsibility for knowing his or her self and transforming that self into it’s highest aspiration. Such a transformation takes place on an individual scale, one mind at a time. 

 

Loving Yourself Is The Foundation

Wednesday, April 30th, 2008

One of the most important, yet most underrated element in any self-improvement program is self esteem. Actually, how we feel about ourselves is most likely THE most crucial factor in any venture we undertake, business or personal!

Self-esteem is not just a subject to be explored when you feel badly, or when you are going through a tough time. And low self-esteem is not an issue faced only by drug addicts, children who live in broken homes, etc.

Consider this…

Self Esteem refers to how you view and think about yourself. Please take a moment to grasp the enormous magnitude of this.

Your identity, consciousness, or self, is the vehicle through which you experience all of life. Any problems existing wihtin or around your image of self will impact literally everything you do in this life!

And the sad truth is many people don’t truly love themselves. In fact our society teaches that it’s foolish, even arrogant to think too  highly of ourselves.

Look… the idea that we shouldn’t love ourselves in the same way we would love the people who mean the most to us in life is absurd! In fact there’s no way you can fully love others without first honestly loving yourself.

Find a mirror and look yourself in the eye. The great thing about our complex consciousness is that we can honestly view ourselves in a “third person” manner; we can think about and look at ourselves as if we are looking at another person. Practice observing yourself from an “outside” perspective often, and really take in the beauty and magnificence you see.

Appreciate yourself. Strive to really see yourself as if for the first time. And start to honestly and totally love yourself in the same way you would love a brother, sister, or significant other.

Do this and you’ll open up a whole new wolrd of power and possibility. You’ll be amazed that you were living a life without this kind of self love before, and you’ll become filled with a desire to help others love themselves as well.

My friend Dr. Joe Rubino has written a phenomenal book on developing the right kind of self esteem for unlocking a truly powerful life. I urge you to take a few minutes to get a copy of this wonderful ebook, read it, and put the exercises you learn to good use.

Click the link ahead to experience the complete Self Esteem System today. I promise you’ll be very glad you did.